Author Archives: BorntoRelate Aleksandra Hytroś-Kiwała

“ I want you to get excited about who you are, what you are, what you have and what can still be for you. I want to inspire you to see that you can go far beyond where you are right now.” Virginia Satir- family therapist The words of Virginia Satir sound like a littleContinueContinue reading “Allowing uniqueness”

In everyday life we use socially approved ways of behaving, forms of social conventions that help to know what is right or wrong. These conventions prove useful in workplaces, or other formal circumstances, but they are insufficient when being with babies. No one can know in advance how to be a mother or a father to this particular baby who has just been born. Having heard from so many parents that parenthood is nothing they could have expected it to be, Alex and Liam designed BorntoRelate.

workshop on femininity /in Polish

Jean is one of those clinicians that  inspire to our greatest depths. The day will be a great opportunity to understand good-enough parenting and learn about babies and what they teach us about ourselves. Highly recommended to all working with babies and children but also those parents who wish to understand their bond with theirContinueContinue reading “Intensive Study Day with Jean Murray”

He was a little bit more then three at that time. Went to bed, but couldn’t fall asleep. If you only saw this fear on his face. His whole body trembled. “Mum, she is there, he said. She is hiding there”. He pointed out to the room thermometer. Who is there, I asked. “The evilContinueContinue reading “Children and Fears”

If you have  any queries, please do not hesitate to contact us at: borntorelate@gmail.com or on our  mobiles: Aleksandra:  +48606498363  (Poland) Liam: +353872079414 (Ireland)  

Aleksandra and Liam work together or separately in various fields to implement mindful and in- depth approach to understanding human functioning. Aleksandra has her clinical practice in Rzeszów, Poland working in Public Health Centre in ZOZ nr 2 as well as privately in Cogito Therapy Centre. She conducts monthly women meetings @KinozaRogiem Cafe. Previously workingContinueContinue reading “ABOUT”

I spoke with my 7 year old son yesterday. He left for holidays and is happy to spend his time with cousins. This is his first, long-term holidays away from us. And our first- long term stay without him! He left, and without him the house became empty. How come one little person can changeContinueContinue reading “Children are a gift”